The Team Tinker Home Away From Home program began out of a tragedy but has turned into a triumph for the young military members stationed at Tinker Air Force Base.
The program was founded by Mike and Pam Kloiber that pairs young service members with civilian host families to help alleviate the anxiety of being alone and far from home, often for the first time.
On an icy Christmas Eve in 2011, two Airmen from the 552nd Air Control Wing were killed in an automobile accident in Oklahoma City. After a conversation with then-552nd ACW Commander Col. Greg Guillot, Mrs. Kloiber had her marching orders and set out to create a program modeled after a similar one at the Air Force Academy.
Over the last 10 years, more than 1,500 first term Airmen and Sailors have taken Kloiber up on her offer and actively participated in the program.
The goal of “Team Tinker Home Away From Home” is to provide all eligible, first-term Service Members with a “home away from home.”
The program strives to match community sponsors with young service men and women, giving them a welcoming, safe, and supportive place to spend time, especially during the holidays.
These community sponsors provide them a welcoming place to relax and offer opportunities to have fun away from the stress and day-to-day requirements of life on Tinker Air Force Base (TAFB). Families offer personal interactions that can develop into strong, long-lasting bonds.
In addition to the host partnership, “Team Tinker Home Away From Home” also provides monthly activities, volunteering opportunities, events, speakers, and professional Life Skills seminars at no cost to service members.
Pam Kloiber said she and her husband are proud of the impact their program has had on service members.
“Mike was the CEO/President of Tinker Federal Credit Union for 33 years,” she said. “Mike and I have always worked as a team, and so when he was working there, I also supported the base in any way I could. I didn’t realize how much of an impact that Home Away From Home would have on me when it first began. The program’s impact and the resiliency, connectivity and family immersion for the service members have exceeded more than I expected.”
Service members can become part of THAFH through several different avenues, Kloiber said.
In addition to being linked with a host family, service members can attend a monthly life skills class through the “Empowerment, Enhancement and Education” initiative.
“ I call all of the servicemembers my kids, and my assigned service members connect with Mike and I every Sunday,” she said. “I’m always trying to find new and innovative ideas to support the service member’s lives. I’m always searching for ways to help empower the service members”
Kloiber writes a program curriculum and each year she has a theme.
For 2025, her theme is Let’s Strive to Thrive, a Year of Empowerment, Enhancement in Education.
“Every month we have professional seminars because I want them to have the opportunity to be exposed and learn life skills,” Kloiber said. “Many of them have never bought a car, particularly service members that live in inner cities like New York City, Brooklyn, and they don’t know how to drive a car. We’ve helped purchase cars for many service members and help them to learn how to drive. I have a class on car buying.”
Kloiber said each month different skills classes are offered.
“Each month we have a speaker talking about various topics pertinent to this age group,” she said.
Kloiber said their program hosts an end-of-the-year party for servicemen and servicewomen called “Thanksmas.”
“We combine Thanksgiving and Christmas together, and we call it Thankmas,” she said. “At all our events we offer a free catered meal. The base leadership, commanders and chiefs all join in to serve the food to service members and they join in the class to show how important it is to better yourself. They take the time to sit and break bread, sit right beside an airman and have a meal. The conversation and connection between the leadership and service members is amazing.”
Kloiber said volunteerism is also an important part of Home Away From Home, following the Air Force’s values of Service Before Self.
“We volunteer in the community several ways,” she said. “We have a connection with Mayor Matt Dukes in Midwest City, and we volunteer with him. He has a neighborhood coalition for senior citizens that need help with various projects around their home. We also laid wreaths for Wreaths Across America, and we volunteered with Hope Therapeutic Horse Ranch. This year we’ve added a volunteer project and it’s Vet Chat, and we will be going in October to Norman’s Veterans facility. We will be having coffee and donuts while spending a Saturday morning with the Veterans in Norman.”
Kloiber said suicide is a factor in the military, but her program has been fortunate to not have experienced any suicides.
“We’ve had a lot of airmen that have reached out because they’re hurting, having some mental health issues and they need support. The families have been wonderful because they know when the service members come over, and they’re consistently visiting with them and doing things with them. They let their service members be there to support them.”
Kloiber said Team Tinker Home Away From Home is more than a program to her. It is her passion.
“It’s a passion now, a connection with young people that I have been able to see growth and development in them,” she said. “They have skills, they have talent, they have ability, but occasionally a few may have a weak self-esteem, and all they just need someone to say, “You’ve got this.”
For more information about Team Tinker Home Away From Home call Kloiber at (405) 503-5041 or visit www.teamtinkerhomeawayfromhome.org Home Away From Home is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit charitable foundation, with no DOD affiliation or governmental status. story/photo by Van Mitchell
