Saturday, April 26, 2025

Vet Chat Gives Veterans Opportunity for Networking, Fellowship, Resources

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L-R Richard McQuillar, Deborah McQuillar, Leo Webster, Cloris Webster, Rick Huston, Leslie Harris. Started VetChat in Leo’s home.
Chaplain Don Udell offers spiritual encouragement and prayer for veterans and service members.
L-R Carle Evans, Shirley Moore, Sue Bruce “Three of our Vet Chat Widows”
L-R Deborah McQuillar AF SMSgt E8/RET, Petty Officer 1st Class (E6) Amy Petersen, Barbarah Curry AF MSgt E7/RET “Three of our Vet Chat Women”

Story and Photo by Van Mitchell, Staff Writer

Leo Webster, a 24-year Air Force MSgt/E7 RET, knows first-hand the importance of communication when helping other veterans.
In July 2018 he started Vet Chat, a monthly meeting where veterans can gather and communicate with each other and learn about resources that are available to them.
Meetings are held the second Saturday of each month at 9 a.m. in the lobby of Cornerstone Church located at 9900 SE 15th Street in Midwest City.
Vet Chat allows veterans and service members to network and fellowship while learning about the resources available to Warriors, spouses, family members, and widows.
The program’s goal is to give a source of support while also connecting and encouraging veterans by sharing stories in passing of useful advice, information, or resources.
Topics include education benefits, VA burial benefits, Wills, Power of Attorney, disability rating, housing and spousal benefits.
“We strive to connect our veterans with local agencies, organizations, and civic groups that specialize in assisting our heroes and their families,” Webster said. “The goal of this group is to be a source of support while also connecting, encouraging and motivating veterans.”
Webster said Senior News and Living will host a Veteran’s Resource Fair at Cornerstone Church on Saturday, Sept. 14 from 9 a.m. to noon in lieu of the regular Vet Chat meeting that day.


Webster said the idea of Vet Chat began while sitting in church.
“I was sitting in church one day and just looking around at the number of veterans in my church. And being a 24-year Air Force veteran myself, I said, “We need to start talking to each other.” This is just going on in my mind,” he said. “So, I invited a group of veterans to my house to have lunch.”
Webster said he and the rest of his invited guests sat in his living room and started talking to each other.
“You put a table full of food out, you can get a lot of people,” he said. “We started thinking about what are the things that we can just start helping veterans with? And obviously benefits and services and things that were available to veterans. So, I just ran a poll around the table and said, ‘Okay, what are some things? Just write down some things that you think that we can work on.’ Each person came up with a list of things they thought.”
Webster said the Vet Chat meetings outgrew his living room.
“We met in my living room at my house for a long time, but it just mushroomed,” he said. “I asked my pastor, Ron McKey, at Cornerstone Church if I could just start using the foyer in the church. He said absolutely. He said anything that we can do to help our veterans is welcomed.”
Webster said initially the Vet Chat meeting started with around eight veterans, but has grown slowly, but steadily.
“We started off with about eight people, and we’ve had as high as 57 people,” he said. “I would love to have over 100 veterans attend the Vet Chat meetings each month.”
Webster said he gets self-satisfaction from helping others.
“If someone needs something and I can help them, I feel that if I don’t do it, then I’m not fulfilling my calling of giving back,” he said.
Webster said the military teaches toughness, but that process has its challenges.
“Being in the service, us veterans are tough. We don’t ever want to admit that we have challenges, or we have aches and pains,” he said. “I’m a veteran and tried navigating applying for VA disability myself and ended up discouraged. My experience was frustrating like many others, but I had a gentleman, a good friend of mine said, ‘Leo, I’m not going to let you give up.’ He came to my house and picked me up and said, ‘We’re going down to the VA. I’m going to sit with you and you’re going to do this. He loved me through the process and just kept on loving me. And I’m comfortable right now.’”
“We help our veterans, their spouses and especially their widows.” Webster noted. When Sue Bruce lost her husband, the only thing she was sure of was she needed someone’s help. “They supported me through every part of the process. I had no clue as to all the benefits that were available to me. They just did everything, like family.” Bruce said. Carla Evans and her husband came on a Saturday earlier this year, seeking information primarily for her father and also her husband. Just weeks later her husband unexpectedly passed away. Evans said, “I could not have made it through that time without Leo and Vet Chat.
Webster said we also look out for our active service members.
“We have several wonderful retired women, like Barbara Curry, AF MSgt RET and Deborah McQuillar AF SMSgt Ret who love to support and mentor active duty females.”
Webster said he wants Vet Chat to be a safe harbor for every veteran.
“I want Vet Chat to become the model place in Midwest City where veterans can come and know, first of all, you’re at a safe place,” he said. “What you share with us is not going to be put on Facebook, it’s not going to be put out online. You are in a safe place. We are here to help you, and it’s going to be very private and confidential what you share with us. I just want to be here for our veterans. Being a veteran myself, I know how complicated it is and I just want to make life easy for these heroes and give them a safe place to just come and hang out.”
Webster said he works hard to earn each veteran’s respect.
“I have been there (Air Force) for 24 years, and I worked hard to earn the respect of the people that I serve,” he said. “And I venture to say everybody that comes to Vet Chat will tell you how hard I work to earn their respect. And I believe they all respect me, I really do. Because I don’t take anything for granted. I’m persistent when I know that I’m doing something that God would want me to do. I’m passionate about it, and I don’t want to leave any stone unturned. I want to do it with all my heart.”
Webster said while he enjoys how Vet Chat helps veterans; he will never be pleased until every veteran’s need is met.
“Yes, I am happy to see how the program is growing, but I will never be pleased until I know every veteran’s needs or services of what they need is met. And I’ll probably never accomplish that, but that gives me the drive to keep pushing every time,” he said. “Our goal is to assist our veterans to get everything that they’re entitled to. I want to be a friend to my fellow heroes, and not just be there for them.”
For more information about Vet Chat contact Webster at (405) 202-0661 or via email at lcweb@cox.net or contact James McQuillar at (405) 659-2116 or via email at jmcquillar@cox.net. See our Resource Fair Flyer on page 22

 

Veteran Donates WWII Service Memorabilia to Fort Sill Field Artillery Museum

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Above: Chandler with Children in front of uniform donations

World War II Army Veteran, Leland D. Chandler, donated his service dress uniform, awards, decorations, military documents and artifacts to the U.S. Army Air Defense Artillery Training Support Facility, Fort Sill, Oklahoma.
In January of 1941, Leland Chandler enlisted in the Army at 18 years old, served during WWII and was stationed at the Corregidor Islands in the Philippines with the 60th Coast Artillery. At the young age of 19 years old, Chandler was captured and taken to Japan and listed as a prisoner of war. During his three-and-a-half year status as a POW, Chandler worked as a steel mill laborer with 12-hour shifts, slept on the workroom floor, required to perform under grueling conditions, if he was healthy enough to work-he was given a bowl of rice a day to eat and was beaten when he physically couldn’t perform his laborious duties.
“There were 400 of us that went into that Japanese prison camp and when we were freed, only 53 of us came out, Chandler recalled as his children unveiled his service uniform and awards during the recent donation to the Fort Sill Museum.
Chandler weighed approximately 190 pounds when he went into the Japanese POW camp and when the remaining survivors were liberated, he weighed only 58 pounds.
“They told me I wouldn’t be able to have children, we’ll I’ve proved them all wrong. Heck, they never thought I would live this long and I’ve proved them wrong on that one too!”, Chandler said.
Three of Chandlers’ five children brought their father to Ft. Sill and were happy to help their Father donate his service memorabilia to the museum.
“We all talked about what we wanted to do with Dad’s military history and we all agreed, that it wouldn’t be right to split up his uniform and awards and that we wanted it all to be in the same place to be properly preserve to maintain all this history,” Linn Woodworth, Chandler’s daughter said, “Now we have a place that his kids, grandkids and great-grandkids can come to see all of our Father’s history in one location.”
“Our facility is the U.S. Army Air Defense Artillery Training Support Facility. We have three facilities here at Fort Sill-the Field Artillery Museum, Fort Sill Museum and the Air Defense Artillery Training Support Facility,” said Correy Twilley ADA Training Support Facility Curator. “Ours is a new training concept that uses history to develop our Soldiers, weapons and tactics.”
“We are ultimately a training facility and we have an obligation to teach our young AIT [Advanced Individual Training] students and OCS [Officer Candidates Students] that attend these courses about this part of our history so they can learn about the past in the hopes that we are not doomed to repeat it,” Twilley said, “We are grateful for this unique and well-preserved piece of Mr. Chandler’s history. With this donation, he is helping to educate the future generations of service members and their families who walk through these halls. So much of WWII history has been lost and Mr. Chandler and his family has helped us preserve this piece in time to teach those future generations about his contributions to our nation’s heritage.”
Chandler continues to defy the odds, at a very spry 101 years old, Mr. Chandler holds the title of centenarian and continues to puzzle the medical experts.
Chandler attributes his extraordinary good health to medical care he receives at the VA and his family that has taken such good care of him throughout the years.
“I’m 100 percent (VA service connection) and the VA has taken excellent care of me and they have done everything they needed to do for me and my wife-they are outstanding,” Chandler said.
“One of the best things the VA could have done for my Father is to ensure our Mother was also taken care of-this was a huge relief to me and our entire family,” Chandler’s daughter Linn Woodworth stated. Unfortunately, On December 1, 2023, Chandlers’ wife passed away, just four days after celebrating their 75th wedding anniversary.
Chandler encourages other Veterans to find out if they are now eligible for VA healthcare because the rules and laws have changed over the years. Although, Chandler gives some sage words of advice to Veterans and says to come to the VA prepared.
“Bring in the right paperwork, the documents you need to get them into the system,” Chandler said. Ask yourself, do you have what you need to back it up?”
When asked the question about Veterans who may be reluctant to come to the VA to find out if you are eligible or not, he gave some fatherly words of advice.
“Well, that is your own fault, if you don’t go in and find out-I don’t have any sympathy for people who don’t do the right thing. I don’t know about other places, but I know the VA where I belong, that is the way it works.”
Chandler added, “I wouldn’t be here today if it wasn’t for my family and the excellent care they have given to me over the years.” Chandler said, “I don’t know what I’d do without them.”
For more information about OKC VA HCS, visit our website at the below link: https://www.va.gov/oklahoma-city-health-care

 

A Marine’s Journey – Mr Sam’s WWII Story and Life

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At 97, Gillaspy Shares Tales of Courage, Service, and Resilience.

From serving in WWII to building a family farm and becoming a beloved storyteller, legacy spans generations.

Story by Richard Stephens, Jr.

Mr. Sam Gillaspy during his service in the Marine Corps, 1945-1946. The vehicle may be one he drove at Camp Pendleton.
Mr. Sam Gillaspy, age 97, is a member of the Greatest Generation, a precious and small (100,000 remain) group of men (and women) who served our nation during WWII.  Everyone calls him Mr. Sam and he lives in Midwest City.
He is physically strong, slim, and walks straight without bending over or using any physical aid.  Over time, he has lost much of his hearing, some memory and speaks with difficulty.
Joining the Marine Corps
“I was 17 and the United States needed men awful hard.  So, I entered the Marines (enlisted on February 28, 1945, with a delayed report date) and I still had about three months of (high) school left,” Mr. Sam said.  His parents gave permission to enlist.  Why the Marine Corps?  According to Jeannie Vollmer, his partner, he felt that the Marines were the toughest Service.
Was he strong enough to join?  Mr. Sam laughed and said, “Oh yeah.  Back then, yeah, I was.”
Training at Parris Island
After graduating high school, the Marines sent Mr. Sam a letter assigning him to active duty service, effective June 5, 1945.  He remembered, “You got five days to get everything (ready to go).  And so, it took us five days to get from Oklahoma City to the east to the ocean” at Parris Island, South Carolina, for basic training.
Was the training hard?  “Yes, and I did pretty good…I made it the middle” (a good training record).
“They taught me how to fire a BAR (Browning Automatic Rifle)…It’s a long…bigger than a rifle and it has at the end of it, a tripod.  You laid down and (moving arms left to right) and shot…like a machine gun.”  Mr. Sam likely fired the Browning M1918A2 Automatic Rifle, which was the WWII production model used by servicemen after 1940.  “They put me to do it and became real good …We learned how to tear them down and get them back together.  We did that for several days.”
There was field training too.  Wearing backpacks, men held their BARs and crawled under barbed wire into live fire zones to practice wartime skills.
“Live ammunition.  We didn’t know.  They (instructors) were shooting.  It was bang, bang.  They told you that if you get up, they will shoot you.  You die…And you had to just to squeeze through the wire.  And some of the boys…had holes in their backpack…because they’re already big men and (it was) a small width.  I was down where it (the fire) didn’t hit me or my pack.  I made it just fine.”
Assignment at Camp Pendleton
After training, “We went from Parris Island…from east to the west…to San Diego, California…And we didn’t know where we were going.  We got out of the train, standing on the pier in the middle of the night…and there was a big boat with planks (gangway).  I had never seen such a ship like that – it was a monster thing.”
The Marines formed up.  A man called their names alphabetically, starting with “A.”   “All the boys were going upstairs (into the ship) as they called their name.
“Then, all of a sudden, this guy comes up with a jeep and said something to the guy that was reading the names.  He said, ‘You, you and you fall out and follow this man in the jeep.’  And I was the third one.  They put the three of us in that jeep and we drove and drove way up to (Camp) Pendleton” (California), Mr. Sam said.
The others left on the pier?  “And all the rest of them, they ended going into the ship.  Those that went out (on the ship), some of them came back, some of them didn’t.  I guess it was meant for me to stay right there.
“They needed somebody to take care of the general’s car.  They put me doing that.”  Private Gillaspy’s occupation was officially “Truck Driver.”  He serviced the vehicle and kept it shined.
Mr. Sam saw men coming back from being stationed in the Pacific theater of operations.  “I was able to talk with them.  This one man, I don’t know why, it’s been so long, he gave me his rifle that he came from the war…” because the man had used it shooting Japanese.  “And he said, ‘…he couldn’t take it anymore’…And he gave it (rifle) to me.  And I was able to put it in my barracks.”
Time Off
During days off, Mr. Sam and friends sometimes went to Los Angelas to United Services Organization (USO) parties.  Hitchhiking was common.
USOs were a place to relax with talking, dancing and drinking.  “What was nice was, Hollywood ladies would come up to me and ask, ‘Would you like to dance with me?’  I said, ‘Yes, Ma’am, but I don’t know how!’” he said, laughing.
Coming home
“My time ended (enlistment).  They gave me my big footlocker…When it was time (to leave), they took us to the post gates.”  Mr. Sam did what others did:  hitchhiked home.  “It was five minutes and this big Buick with a man driving it (pulled up).  He said, ‘Which way are you going?’  Mr. Sam replied, ‘I’m going to Oklahoma City.’ ‘Well,’ he said, ‘I’m going to Tulsa.  I’ll take you and it won’t cost you nothing.’”
That’s how Mr. Sam got home after serving in WIWII.  He was discharged as a Private First Class on August 26, 1946, after serving a bit more than 14 months.
Post war
Mr. Sam worked for Dolese, a well-known cement maker, for 40 years starting in 1949.  He met Betty, his future wife, and once married, had two daughters, Rita and Cynthia.  They built a home on 42nd Ave. and Kelly Ave. in Oklahoma City.
In 1961, Mr. Sam bought a 160-acre farm in Luther containing a small house built in 1889.  He drove concrete trucks full-time for Dolese and farmed part time.  Once he added rooms and electricity to the house, Betty, Rita, and Cynthia moved there in 1968.  Unfortunately, Betty died of a heart attack soon after.  They grew wheat and alfalfa, fed 80 Hereford cows and raised chickens and rabbits.
Mr. Sam is well known at Arcadia’s Round Barn.  He started storytelling and giving tours soon after the barn’s renovation in 1992.  He explained posters and pictures on the first floor and showed visitors the former hayloft on the second floor that hosted many dances.
Although he stopped storytelling at the Round Barn in 2020, lucky visitors can still catch him there when he stops in to say hello.
Postscript
Was Mr. Sam glad he served in the war?  “Oh yeah, I was,” he said, smiling broadly.  “I enjoyed all of it.”
Asked he had a philosophy on living life or what makes for a good life, Mr. Sam thought for a minute.  Chuckling, then smiling, thinking through his answer, he replied, “I don’t smoke.  I don’t drink.  I don’t chase wild women.”  (Laughed).  His is a life lived well.

Tinker RAO Provides Guidance, Assistance to Veterans

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CMSgt. (Retired USAF) Lorraine Caddy serves as the Director of the Military Retiree Activities Office at Tinker Air Force Base.

Story and Photo by Van Mitchel, Staff Writer

The Military Retiree Activities Office (RAO) at Tinker Air Force Base serves as a liaison between the active-duty community and the retiree population.
The RAO is located in Bldg. 1, Door 7, Room 153 at Tinker AFB, and is manned by experienced military retiree members Monday through Friday from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m.
“Our office is here to serve every retiree, regardless of rank or branch of service, when they need guidance or assistance with any issues, “ said RAO Director/CMSgt. (Retired USAF) Lorraine Caddy. “We also provide volunteers to support the Tinker mission at the RAO Office, and the Tinker Clinic Pharmacy.”
Chief Caddy said the Tinker RAO was started in 1982, and she has been with it since 1985. She started as RAO Director in 2014.
“Our primary mission is to be available for any military people or their families, regardless of rank or branch of service, to help them with whatever difficulties they’re having or get them to the right people to help them, which is really what we are,” she said. “We’re more of a referral agency than a doing agency. We have somebody here Monday through Friday from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. and they’re all trained with as much knowledge as we can give them. We just take the questions as they come on the phone or through the door.”
Chief Caddy said when someone calls or comes by the RAO, the process begins by determining what their problem is and how we can help
“Most military retirees should know how to handle their own personal business, but unfortunately, a lot of people don’t talk. Husbands and wives don’t talk, so they don’t all have the same information,” she said. “We try to find out exactly what their problem is, number one. We try to give them information about this office so that they know they can always come back here. I always tell people, “If we haven’t solved your problem, please come back. We’ll find somebody else who can help you,” because we always try to be available.”
Chief Caddy said once a veteran separates from their branch of service, it becomes more challenging to find help with services needed.
“When someone is on active duty, they basically have face to face help with all their human resource issues and things of that nature. But once you separate, you’re done. You don’t really have a local office to go to for admin information, things of that nature,” she said. “We try to get them the resources they need.”
Chief Caddy said one of the ways the RAO works to get information out is through its Military Retiree Appreciation Day happening on Saturday, Sept. 28 at the Tinker Event Center starting at 7:30 a.m. with the formal program starting at 9 a.m. with several speakers scheduled.
Chief Caddy said the 2023 Military Retiree Appreciation Day had 200 attendees.
“In years past, before COVID, we had more than that, but we had to stop completely for two years,” she said.
The event is planned by Chief Caddy and a committee of volunteers that she selects.
“We’ll open the doors to the public at 0730-for those attending with lite refreshments available while they last,” she said. “I currently have 20 booth folks lined up, meaning people will come and be at a table where you can go and speak with them, and these are people from TriCare and Casualty Assistance, VA, and more. We also have a bus tour that’s available for those who want to take it around Tinker. It takes about 45 minutes to do the bus tour.”
The Military Retiree Appreciation Day also includes the naming of the Volunteer of the Year.
“That award is presented by the Wing Commander at my request to the person at the Retiree Day Service ceremony, so that they know that we give a darn that they’re there, because these people are giving their time and they’ve already given 20 years or more of their life to service,” Chief Caddy said.
Chief Caddy encourages those attending Military Retiree Appreciation Day to ask their questions.
“When I send an email, I encourage them to bring their questions, and before I dismiss any speaker, I always say, ‘Do you have more questions? Please don’t wait until he leaves and then ask me,‘ which is what happens sometimes. They’re shy,” she said. “There’s no question that’s stupid, in my opinion. There is no such thing. If you have a question and you need answers then you need to ask it. Sometimes those questions can’t be answered at the meeting, but then I make sure that that person has an appointment with the people they need to speak with.”
Chief Caddy said she has a desire to keep helping veterans as she was helped along the way.
“I did 20 years of service, and I enjoyed every minute of it,” she said.
Chief Caddy said she was very fortunate to make Chief Master Sergeant after 15 years of service. She started her AF Creer in 1957 and retired from active service in 1977, and she was one of the first 10 women to achieve the rank of CMSgt in the entire United States Air Force.
“I was fortunate because I worked with people who cared,” she said. “Women veterans at that time were not assigned worldwide as they are today. I was working on an IG team and because of that was able to spend three years at Wiesbaden, Germany. My volunteer work with the RAO is great. I meet so many wonderful people and am happy to provide this service to our military retirees.”
Chief Caddy said veteran retiree volunteers are welcome to help with the RAO.
“We would love to have you join us as a volunteer in the Retiree Activities Office, and the Clinic Pharmacy,” she said. “We only ask for 3 hours a week of your time and you will know the joy of “continuing to serve.”

For more information about the RAO or to sign up for the Military Retiree Appreciation Day call (405) 739-2795 or email Chief Caddy at lorraine.caddy@us.af.mil

 

Cornerstone Home Health has Long History of Serving Seniors and Veterans

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Ballinda Callison, President of Cornerstone Home Health

Story and Photo by Van Mitchell, Staff Writer

Cornerstone Home Health has been providing services to seniors and veterans in the Oklahoma City metro area since 2003. The veteran-owned company is expanding its footprint by opening an office in Weatherford.

Cornerstone Home Health has been providing services to seniors and veterans in the Oklahoma City metro area since 2003.
Ballinda Callison, President of Cornerstone Home Health said in an interview with Bott Radio serving veterans is a core aspect of their business.
“We service a lot of our veterans, and in fact, probably 80% of our business right now is with the veterans,” she said. “We take care of the veterans, we can do therapy for them, nursing wound care, all those types of things. We can also do their personal care, help them with showers or as little as driving them to an appointment for a doctor’s appointment, going grocery shopping for them, helping them strip and remake their bed, emptying the trash.”
Callison, the daughter of a nurse, has been helping to take care of patients in their homes since she was a young girl. As an adult with small children of her own, she brought meals and did light housework for members of her church, who appreciated the help and enjoyed seeing her children.
She later went back to school, earned a Business Administration degree in Health Care, and was licensed to work in Oklahoma as a Home Health Administrator. She was a co-owner of a staffing firm providing home health care services before starting CHH.
Callison said the lessons she learned as a child with her mother helped shape her vision for Cornerstone.
“My mother did work in convalescent homes,” she said. “She was working almost 16-hour days, and she ended up getting her RN license through the convalescent home years ago. After my dad got back from Vietnam, she started working in private homes for individuals. Somewhere between eight and nine years old, I went with my mother at times to go out to these people’s homes and help her work alongside her because we became their families. Senior care or the home care portion is a big part of keeping people in their home and keeping them from having to need advanced care.”
Callison said Cornerstone Home Health is about building relationships with their clients and families.
“We’d find out what their needs are and if they’re needing transportation to the doctor, if they’re needing physical therapy, if they’ve got a wound or if they’re, then we have to find out first what their needs are,” she said. “Then we would discuss what our services are.”
Callison said faith led her journey to Cornerstone Home Health.
“I look back on my life and the Lord had been preparing me ever since I was a young girl for this kind of work,” she said. “It’s very challenging, it’s rewarding, it’s hurtful. You’ve got to have a passion because if it’s about the money, it isn’t going to happen.”
Now, the veteran-owned company is expanding its footprint by opening a location in Weatherford.
“We’ve opened an office this summer in Weatherford and started taking clients here, within about a 35- to 40-mile radius of Weatherford,” Kathy McGee, Business Development Administrator. “That’s going to include Custer County, Blaine County, basically all the way up I-40 back into Oklahoma City.”
McGee said Cornerstone saw a growing need for its services outside of Oklahoma City.
“It wasn’t necessarily a decision to press forward in one area. It just came out of being contacted to take care of a client, then another,” she said. “Instead of bringing people from Oklahoma City to do that, we decided that we would just go forward this way. We opened the office in the summer, started getting to know some people in the area, and we are really starting to dial into community activities and taking more patients.”
McGee said Cornerstone Home Health wants to hire local caregivers in their expanded area.
“Clients that are here in the Weatherford, Clinton area, their caregivers are going to be from the Weatherford, Clinton area,” she said. “If we have a client that’s in Hinton or Watonga, it’s probably going to be more like someone from that area. Our goal is hiring caregivers in those areas that are closer to those clients that we have in the rural markets.”
McGee said Cornerstone is focusing on personal care services for seniors and veterans in their expanded area.
“We’ll start with maybe light duty housekeeping, meal prep, cooking. We can help with some showering, running errands, some of those kinds of things,” she said. “We offer nursing services for veterans now and will expand nursing services to seniors in 2025.”

For more information call (405) 354-5454 or visit www.cornerstonehomehealthservices.com.

 

Oklahoma City Native to Graduate From Officer Candidate School

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Ensign Samuel Sharp graduate from the Navy’s Officer Candidate School (OCS)

Story by Megan Brown,
Navy Office of Community Outreach

Ensign Samuel Sharp, a native of Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, graduate from the Navy’s Officer Candidate School (OCS). Sharp is a graduate of Gulf Breeze High School and an Oklahoma Baptist University graduate. “I joined the Navy because I wanted to serve my country and follow in the footsteps of my family members who also previously served,” said Sharp.
The skills and values needed to succeed in the Navy are similar to those found in Oklahoma City. “A few lessons I have learned from my hometown that have helped me throughout my time in the Navy and at OCS are the importance of being resilient, adapting to new circumstances and stepping up as a leader when needed,” said Sharp.
OCS is one of four officer accession programs operating at Officer Training Command Newport (OTCN). OCS is the final step in a sailor’s transition into the Naval Officer Corps. This rigorous 13-week program is comprehensive, intense, and designed to reinforce understanding of the responsibilities of a naval officer.
Located in Newport, Rhode Island, the command’s mission is to develop newly commissioned officers morally, mentally and physically, and imbue them with the highest ideals of honor, courage and commitment in order to prepare them for the Fleet. Additionally, this program prepares officers to become effective leaders by developing fundamental skills in leadership, written and oral communication, career management and administration.
With 90% of global commerce traveling by sea and access to the internet relying on the security of undersea fiber optic cables, Navy officials continue to emphasize that the prosperity of the United States is directly linked to recruiting and retaining talented people from across the rich fabric of America.
Sharp serves a Navy that operates far forward, around the world and around the clock, promoting the nation’s prosperity and security. “We will earn and reinforce the trust and confidence of the American people every day,” said Adm. Lisa Franchetti, chief of naval operations. “Together we will deliver the Navy the nation needs.”
Sharp has many opportunities to achieve accomplishments during military service. “So far, my proudest accomplishment while serving in the Navy is having the opportunity to come to OCS as a student naval aviator,” said Sharp.
As Sharp and other sailors continue to train and perform missions, they take pride in serving their country in the U.S. Navy. “Serving in the Navy means that I am able to build myself and other sailors into great leaders,” added Sharp. “It also means setting an example for others to follow, not only in the fleet, but in society as well.”

 

 

 


 

 

Savvy Senior: Long-Term Care Benefits for Veterans and Surviving Spouses

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Dear Savvy Senior, I understand that the Veterans Administration has a benefit that can help veterans and spouses with long-term care costs. We recently had to move my elderly father into an assisted living memory care facility, and my mother will probably need care too in the near future. What can you tell me?
Searching for Aid

Dear Searching,
The Veterans Administration (VA) does indeed have an underutilized benefit that can help wartime veterans and their surviving spouses pay for a variety of long-term care costs.
This benefit, called “Aid and Attendance,” is a special pension that’s paid on top of existing VA pensions for eligible veterans and surviving spouses. In 2024, it pays a maximum of $2,727 a month to married veterans; $2,300 a month to single veterans; or $1,478 a month to a surviving spouse. The money is tax free, and can be used to pay for assisted living, memory care, nursing home or in-home care services.
Currently, around 156,000 veterans and survivors are receiving the Aid and Attendance benefit, but many thousands more are eligible who either don’t know about it or don’t think they qualify.
Eligibility Requirements
To qualify, your dad must have served at least 90 days of active military service with at least one day of service during a period of war, and not have been discharged dishonorably. Single surviving spouses of wartime vets are eligible if their marriage ended due to death.
In addition, your dad will also have to meet certain thresholds for medical and financial need to be eligible.
To qualify medically he must be either disabled, or over the age of 65 and need help performing basic everyday living tasks such as eating, bathing, dressing or going to the bathroom. Being blind or in a nursing home due to disability or receiving Social Security Disability or SSI also qualifies him. Single surviving spouses have no age restrictions, but they must require help with basic everyday living tasks to be eligible.
To qualify financially your parents “net worth,” which includes assets and annual income combined, must be below $155,356 in 2024.
To calculate this, add up your parent’s assets, which includes their personal property (like investments, real estate, etc.) excluding their primary home and vehicles. And tally up their income over the past year (including Social Security, pensions, interest income from investments, annuities, etc.), minus any out-of-pocket medical expenses, prescription drugs, insurance premiums and long-term care costs over that same period of time.
The VA also has a three-year lookback to determine if your parents transferred any assets to ensure they would qualify for benefits. If so, they may be subject to a penalty period of up to 5 years.
How to Apply
To apply for Aid and Attendance, you’ll need to fill out VA Form 21-2680 and mail it to the Pension Management Center (PMC) for your dad’s state. You’ll need to have your dad’s doctor fill out the examination information section. Or you can also apply in person at a VA regional office near your parents.
For more information or to download application forms see
https://www.va.gov/pension/aid-attendance-housebound. You can also call the VA at 800-827-1000 if you have questions.
If you need some help, you can appoint a Veteran Service Officer (VSO), a VA-accredited attorney or claims agent to represent your dad. See
https://www.va.gov/ogc/apps/accreditation/index.asp to locate someone.
If your dad is eligible, it can take months for his application to be processed, so be patient.
You should also know that if your dad’s Aid and Attendance application is approved, the VA will send a lump sum retroactive payment covering the time from the day you filed the application until the day it was approved. Then your dad receives monthly payments going forward.
Send your senior questions to: Savvy Senior, P.O. Box 5443, Norman, OK 73070, or visit https://savvysenior.org. Jim Miller is a contributor to the NBC Today show and author of “The Savvy Senior” book.

 

Vietnam Veterans Day to be a busy one for VillagesOKC

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Maj. Gen. Rita Aragon (retired) pins Navy veteran Eddie Roach during a past Vietnam War era ceremony at the Oklahoma History Center Museum. Both are VillagesOKC members.

By Marilyn Olson, Executive Director, VillagesOKC

March 29 will be a full day of celebration and commemoration for VillagesOKC members. It’s National Vietnam Veterans Day, and two major events will fill the day. A morning ceremony at the Oklahoma History Center Museum will honor all Vietnam-era veterans. An afternoon ceremony at Del City High School will recognize the character and sacrifice of 1st Lt. James Robert Kalsu.
VillagesOKC is partnering with the Oklahoma History Center Museum, the local offices of Humana, Oklahoma Warriors Honor Flight, the Force 50 Foundation and Navigating Medicare to host a pinning ceremony honoring all the servicemen and servicewomen, active or reservists, who served anywhere in the world during the Vietnam War-era. Each will receive a lapel pin inscribed with “A Grateful Nation Thanks and Honors You.”
The event will be held in the Devon Great Hall of the museum 10 a.m. to noon, with the doors opening at 9:00 a.m. This event is free and open to the public.
At 1 p.m. that afternoon, a larger-than-life monument to Kalsu will be unveiled at the Del City High School stadium which bears his name. At 1:30 p.m. in the Del City Performing Arts Center there will be a Vietnam-Era Veteran pinning ceremony and premier of the documentary “Uncommon Character – the Legacy of James Robert Kalsu.”
Kalsu was a stand-out student and Del City High School football star, an All-American at the University of Oklahoma, and Rookie of the Year for the Buffalo Bills, who became the only active professional athlete killed in action in the Vietnam War.
“If our children and grandchildren are to truly value the freedoms we have, it will be experiencing events like this where men and women are honored for their character and selfless acts of valor,” said VillagesOKC Executive Director Marilyn Olson. “VillagesOKC values our veterans and intends to continue finding ways to honor them.”
According to a release from the museum: “March 29 was designated as Vietnam Veterans Day by the 2008 National Defense Authorization Act, to be commemorated with annual nationwide events. Guided by the stipulations in that act, only Vietnam War veterans and their families are recognized. However, the Vietnam War Commemoration organization is providing recognition pins to honor any US veteran who served on active duty or in the reserves in the US Armed Forces at any time during the period of November 1, 1955, to May 15, 1975, regardless of location, Vietnam or elsewhere. Family members of any veteran unable to be present may also receive this pin.”
The keynote speaker will be Colonel “Chuck” DeBellevue who has been deemed “Ace of Aces;” one of only five to achieve that status from downing six North Vietnamese MiGs. Altogether, he logged 550 combat hours while flying 220 combat missions; 96 over Vietnam. His decorations include the Air Force Cross, three Silver Stars, three Legions of Merit, six Distinguished Flying Crosses, eighteen Air Medals and the Republic of Vietnam Gallantry Cross with Device. In 2012, he was inducted into the Oklahoma Military Hall of Fame and received the Congressional Gold Medal.

Visit: https://villagesokc.org/

Veterans Resource Fair American Legion Post 88

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Senior News and Living sponsored a pop-up resource fair at the American Legion in Norman on Monday, May 13th. Here are a few highlights from the event.

Jim Buck, a retired Navy veteran and general manager of the Norman Firehouse Subs delivered sandwiches to the Post. While he was there, he also talked with a Veterans Service Officer about his benefits. Post 88 has a high success rate for settling claims.
Brandon Wallace, right, an Army veteran and President of Flag Poles Honoring our Veterans chats with a veteran attendee at FPHOV table. This all volunteer organization installs flag poles (free of charge) in the yards of Oklahoma veterans. For more information see their website www.fphov.org
Stretch Zone practioner, Josh Johnson, M.S.E., was giving complimentary demonstrations of the the Stretch Zone process.
Stretch Zone practioner, Josh Johnson, M.S.E., was giving complimentary demonstrations of the the Stretch Zone process.

 

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