Saturday, April 26, 2025

Evelyn Rudie’s Hollywood Memories

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Top, Evelyn Rudie and husband Chris DeCarlo, artistic directors at the Santa Monica Playhouse.
Right, Actress and author Kay Thompson, who appeared in the TV production, with young Evelyn Rudie as Eloise – CBS publicity photo

By Nick Thomas

Her film and television career only lasted a decade, but Evelyn Rudie’s memories from the 1950s and 60s as a child actor remain vivid beginning with a small role in the Fred Astaire and Leslie Caron 1955 musical, “Daddy Long Legs.” After meeting director Henry Koster through a family connection when she was just 3 years old, young Evelyn was offered an audition at Twentieth Century Fox.
“They thought I looked exactly like Leslie Caron would have looked like as a child,” recalled Rudie, who ended up playing one of the orphan children in a scene with the French actress.
Throughout the 50s she appeared in several movies but received special acclaim for roles in live television plays on shows such as “Playhouse 90” and “General Electric Theater.” For her performance as Eloise in the 1956 CBS “Playhouse 90” episode of the same name, Rudie became the first child nominated for an Emmy.
The TV play was based on the Eloise children’s book series from the 50s written by actress Kay Thompson and illustrated by Hilary Knight. The books portray the fictitious antics of young Eloise who lives in the New York City Plaza Hotel. With plenty of dialogue, Rudie’s character was central to the story and her performance on live TV was flawless (the 90-minute show can be seen on YouTube), but the original plan was for Thompson to overdub Rudie’s voice.
“They wanted to know if I could say my lines if I was coached all day before the broadcast,” explained Rudie. “Well, I’d heard those lines every day for three weeks during rehearsals, so it really wasn’t any big deal for me.”
Rudie’s role in the 1959 “General Electric Theater” episode Nobody’s Child was also memorable, mainly due to her co-star.
“I worked with Ronald Reagan who was one of the nicest people I’ve ever met,” she said. “He had a way of looking at you that made you feel like you were the most important person in his life. He did that with the director, the gaffer, the lady in the commissary – everyone. Whether or not it was genuine who knows, but it probably served him well when he went into politics.”
And speaking of presidents, when bantering with Groucho Marx in 1959 on “You Bet Your Life,” she informed the comedian if she didn’t remain in acting, she wanted to become president of the United States stating, “a woman has just as much right to be president as a man does.” Not surprisingly for the time, the line drew only modest applause from the audience mixed with a sprinkling of what sounded like disapproving ‘oohs’ as well.
“At school, in first grade, we talked about career choices, so I only wanted to be president if my acting career didn’t work out. Fortunately, it did,” she said.
Rudie’s true acting passion turned out to be theater where she still works today. Along with husband Chris DeCarlo, the couple have been artistic directors since 1973 at the Santa Monica Playhouse where they also act in productions (see www.santamonicaplayhouse.com). This coming fall, the Playhouse will be premiering “My Father’s Trunk,” the story of her father’s years as an underground anti-Nazi cabaret creator. After he died in 1996, Rudie discovered an old trunk in the basement containing costumes, set designs, show programs, and most of the songs and sketches he wrote for the Secret Cabaret at the Tuschinski Theatre in Amsterdam.
“I’ve been translating the songs ever since and finally we’re ready to start putting the show together,” she says. “In a way, I’m grateful I didn’t do more films or a TV series because a lot of kids who did became messed up. I got to be a normal kid and enjoy an acting career at the same time.”

Nick Thomas teaches at Auburn University at Montgomery, Ala., and has written features, columns, and interviews for many newspapers and magazines. See
https://www.getnickt.org.

Healthy Living Norman Celebrates 8 Months

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A jigsaw puzzle invites memebers and attentees to sit and work on it.
Ginna Dowling, Art Coordinator, talks with attendees about art classes.
Several billiards tables are available off the lobby.
An indoor walking track is a feature of the gym.

Story and photos by Marise Boehs

The mission of Healthy Living Norman is to promote the health and well-being of adults aged 50 and older by providing opportunities for physical activity, social engagement, and lifelong learning at the Adult Wellness and Education Center.

Healthy Living Norman uses a six-dimensional model of wellness that includes emotional, spiritual, intellectual, social, physical, and occupational factors. The goal of the wellness center is to embody and provide programs under one roof to improve the quality of life for adults 50 and above in the Norman community. The 32,000-square-foot facility serves as a hub of wellness activities.

To better educate the community and showcase this new facility, they held an open house on Saturday, July 13th.

“We have been open 8 months today,” said Katherine Leidy, Healthy Living Norman Branch Manager. “We have done some fun things and have more activities planned – more dances which have been a huge attraction. We have pickleball and billiards. The pool always has fun things happening.”

“Membership is $35 a month. But we do have a sliding scale for those with lower incomes. We also accept Silver Sneakers and Renew Active, which cover the monthly membership fee,” Leidy explained.

Membership includes access to the gym and pool as well as all activities and classes. While some classes may have a fee for materials, entry is included.

A 1st Annual Wellness Expo will be held on Saturday, August 17th. It is free and open to the public. This event is meant to encourage healthy lifestyles for people 50+ with demos, samples, and information about healthy lifestyles from various vendors.

They are planning a group trip to England, Scotland, and Wales in October. For more information check out their website at www.healthylivingnorman.com.

The website also has all Programs and Class Schedules available at the Center.

This is an awesome new center geared to 50+ persons to encourage  health, wellness and camaraderie. If you want to just check it out they have a day pass for $10.

Center Amenities
Warm Indoor
Saltwater Pool
Demonstration Kitchen
Fitness Center
Land and Water
Fitness Classes
Health Screenings
Seminars and Events
Billiards
Indoor Walking Track
Outdoor Pickleball Courts
Fireplace and Lounge Area
Small Gathering Spaces
Art and Educational Classes

Metro Libraries August Events

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Senior Citizens’ Events at the Metropolitan Library System

Tai Chi for Better Balance Learn Tai Chi to help reduce the risk of falling, increase balance, and improve flexibility. This six-week class offers a series of slow, continuous movements. • Aug. 1, 6, 8, 13, 15, 10 a.m. at Warr Acres Library

Tai Chi for Better Movement Bethany Library offers an eight-week Tai Chi class for seniors, promoting balance, flexibility, and overall well-being through gentle, continuous movements suitable for all fitness levels. • Aug. 3, 10, 17, and 31, 9:30 a.m. at Bethany Library

Total Wellness Total Wellness is a free program by the Oklahoma City-County Health Department designed to help adults prevent diabetes and heart disease through weight loss and increased activity. • Aug. 6 and 13, 5:15 p.m. at Midwest City Library • Aug. 7 and 14. 5:15 p.m. at Bethany Library

Stay Active & Independent for Life (SAIL) Designed to increase muscle strength, range of movement, and improve daily living activities. Includes chair exercises. • Aug. 19, 21, 26, and 28, 10 a.m. at the Village Library • Aug. 21 and 28, 10 a.m. at Choctaw Library

Alzheimer’s Support Group The Alzheimer’s Association Caregiver Support Group offers a supportive community for those caring for individuals with Alzheimer’s or dementia, providing comfort, practical advice, and a safe space to share experiences. • Aug. 27, 6 p.m. at Bethany Library

August Adventures: State Fair Fun and Back-to-School Excitement at Your Library

As the new school year approaches, the Metropolitan Library System invites guests of all ages to enjoy various events across its 19 locations. Explore the highlights below and visit:
https://www.metrolibrary.org/events/upcoming for more details.

Back to School Preparation Prepare for the school year with the Metropolitan Library System’s digital resources, including Creativebug for arts and crafts, Fiero Code for coding lessons, and HelpNow for live tutoring. Explore LearningExpress Library for practice tests, LinkedIn Learning for business and tech courses, and Tumblebooks for interactive children’s reading. Visit metrolibrary.org for more details on these resources and upcoming events! • Back to School Kit: Available throughout August at Choctaw Library, includes essential school supplies. • Educators Reception: August 5, 2:30 PM at Almonte Library, offering tours of the new library and Makerspace. • Back to School Slime Time: August 15, 4 PM at Bethany Library, a hands-on slime-making activity. • Web Developer Bootcamp: Learn CSS, JavaScript, HTML, and more at Choctaw Library every Thursday in August at 7 PM.

Metro Grows: Gardening for All Ages
Our Metro Grows Program returns with expanded tool lending at 12 locations and discovery backpacks for children. Join us for these upcoming gardening events: • Organic Pest Management: August 6, 3 PM at Bethany Library. • Fall Beginner Gardening: August 6, 6 PM at Del City Library and August 26, 6PM at Choctaw Library. • Tea Making: August 6, 6:30 PM at Jones Library; August 17, 11 AM at Northwest Library; August 20, 6 PM at Bethany Library. • Natural Dyes for Kids: August 7, 3PM at Jones Library; August 9, 10 AM at Choctaw Library; August 10, 11 AM at Village Library; August 14, 4 PM at Ralph Ellison Library; August 24, 2 PM at Southern Oaks Library; August 26, 1 PM at Almonte Library. • Fall Budget Gardening for Kids: August 10, 10:30 AM at Luther Library; August 19, 4:30 PM at Midwest City Library; August 20, 4 PM at Northwest Library; August 24, 10 AM at Warr Acres Library. • Planning Your Fall Garden: August 13, 6:30 PM at Luther Library; August 28, 6 PM at Midwest City Library.

LitFest Returns Join us for the 7th Annual LitFest at the Downtown OKC Library on August 17 from 10 AM to 4 PM featuring sessions on AI and writing, publishing, romance, dialogue writing, children’s books, Oklahoma folklore, comics, and more, including a critique partner speed workshop.

State Fair Fun at Your Library
Join us for “Go Again! With the State Fair of Oklahoma” with themed programming at all locations starting August 26. Activities include crafting state fair-themed souvenirs inspired by historical photographs and programs from the library’s archives. Each library will feature different activities, and guests can enter a raffle for a chance to win a four-pack of State Fair tickets. Raffle entries close on September 6. • Featured Take-Home Kits in August:State Fair Pennant Kit: Begins August 26 at Del City Library. Teens and adults can create personalized pennants with materials inspired by historical State Fair souvenirs from the 1930s. This kit includes a felt pennant, ties, logo and year, and puff paint. All recipients will be entered into a raffle for State Fair tickets. • Miniature State Fair Food Kit: Available starting August 27 at Wright Library. Enjoy crafting miniature versions of your favorite State Fair foods.

Brightstar Gives Navy Vet Opportunity to Stay Active

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Tom Richey, a 9-year Navy veteran, utilizes a home health aide from Brightstar Care for help with his daily routines.

Story by Van Mitchell, Staff Writer

Navy veteran Tom Richey has faced several challenges in his life including being in a wheelchair for the last 50 years due to an auto accident.
But those challenges haven’t stopped him from living his life, and his desire to stay active at age 77.
“Trap shooting is my one and only thing that I still do,” he said. “Like I say, I’m too old to run marathons and play wheelchair sports and stuff like that, but I can compete against anybody. Just hold the gun up and bang. I’m on an equal footing with you. You want to come out and compete against me. We go head-to-head.”
Richey comes from a military family and decides to follow suit.
“My father was in the United States Navy, and so we traveled a lot, and I graduated in 1964 from Mar Vista High School, Imperial Beach, California,” he said. “It’s the most south westerly city in the continental United States. In 1964 Vietnam became a war, and I joined the Navy. They offered me a pretty good program way back in the sixties, nuclear power.”
After boot camp, Richey attended Nuclear Power Basic School in Idaho before finishing up in nuclear power submarine school.
Richey spent his entire 9-year Naval service working as an electrician on submarines, working 18-hour-days while at sea.
“I started on my first submarine, the Flasher, then my next ship, the 640 class Benjamin Franklin,” he said. “I got transferred to 623 and 624, which are Hale and Wilson. And then my last submarine was a new construction of the 684, which was the last submarine named for a fish. All those after that were named for city, different class submarines. I’ve been around the world three times, been in every major body of water, except I’ve never been in the Mediterranean.”
After nine years, Richey said he was ready to leave the long-working days on submarines and rejoin his wife and children back in Oklahoma.
Richey said the ride home to the Sooner state from Connecticut took longer than expected due to gas rationing across the country in December 1973.
“I started out driving from Connecticut, driving towards Oklahoma, and I had no idea that we had something called gas rationing,” he said. “It took me a week to get from Connecticut to Oklahoma.”
Richey landed a job in Oklahoma working as an engineer in the oil industry before the car accident that changed the trajectory of his life.
“On Feb. 3,1974 I went to work Monday morning. I got injured going home,” he said. “The steering gear separated on the truck. The steering wheel didn’t control the front wheels. The road had been graded. There was a triangle of dirt running down one side. They hadn’t smoothed all the way out. The left front tire caught that soft dirt. I was thinking about jumping, because coming up was a one lane, wooden ridge, no guard rails. Without control, it looked like that truck was not going to make it across the bridge. Just as I was thinking about jumping, the truck slid. I’m injured. I’ve been in a wheelchair for over 50 years.”
While recovering in the hospital, he was asked whether he was a member of the Paralyzed Veterans of America (PVA), which he was not, but was given a one-year free membership while he was rehabbing.
The Paralyzed Veterans of America (PVA) is a congressionally chartered veterans service organization specializing in assisting and promoting a full lifestyle for veterans affected by spinal cord injury or neurological disease.
The PVA was formed in 1946. The key objective of PVA is to take action necessary to restore spinal cord injured or diseased veterans’ bodies and life potentials as closely to those not suffering spinal cord dysfunction. This is accomplished by the coordinated efforts of the PVA organization through programs that do the following:
• Advocate for and monitor the delivery of high quality and appropriate health care benefits and services.
• Assist in identifying and securing veterans’ benefits and other benefits for spinal cord injured and diseased veterans and others as appropriate.
• Promote medical research to cure spinal cord dysfunction and other related issues.
• Educate society on the attitudinal, physical and legal barriers confronting persons with disabilities and to influence the removal of those barriers.
• Provide information and opportunities for the promotion of health, employment, sports and recreation, social services, and camaraderie for spinal cord injured and diseased veterans and others as appropriate.
• Provide cooperation and seek the support of other groups and individuals who share PVA’s objectives.
• Acquaint the public with the current and ongoing needs of America’s veterans and
• To acquaint the public with simple and effective means for reducing the risk of preventing spinal cord injury.
• To promote involvement of the public in national and local activities that support PVA’s mission.
Richey later became a certified nationally registered benefits officer for the PVA.
“I did that for several years and offered aid and assistance to really disabled veterans,” he said. “I did a lot of visitations in the VA hospitals doing the same thing that the guys did for me when I was injured. I started doing it for them, the next generation.”
Richey helped start the PVA chapter in Oklahoma.
“I was the vice president for a year and was then elected as a national director,” he said. “And I did that for 20 years.”
During his time with the Oklahoma PVA, he helped with finding ways for PVA chapters to make money to help disabled veterans.
The result was the creation of Stor-Mor Mini Storage located at 7600 N. Rockwell Avenue in Oklahoma City.
“We were looking for a way of funding money for the chapters so they could make money,” Richey said. “The national office partnered with the state PVA office and we got a loan for construction, purchased the land and did all of this. We designed this part of the living quarters, wanted it set up so that one of our members could run it. Beverly and I took it over the first day of May (from previous managers).”
Richey said he is now at the point in life where he needs assistance with his daily routines. He receives help from Brightstar Care of Edmond/Oklahoma City located at 3000 United Founders Blvd. No. 103G in Oklahoma City.
“Getting older, I’ve really slowed down,” he said. “Brightstar gives me the opportunity to live almost independently. The VA has classified me as housebound and pretty much I am. Brightstar is the company that the VA connected me with to give me a home health aide.”
Cynthia with Brightstar is Richey’s home health aide.
“Cynthia has been with us for a long time now,” he said.” She wakes me up, helps me get up out of bed, go through my morning routines, and then cooks breakfast, makes the beds, lays out my clothes. I don’t have to go live in a nursing home. Brightstar has allowed me to live here on my own. Without them, I’m not exactly sure where I would be.”

For more information about Brightstar Care call
(405) 896-9600 or visit
https://www.brightstarcare.com.

Savvy Senior: Paying for Nursing Home Care with Medicaid

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Dear Savvy Senior, If my mother needs to move into a nursing home, what are the eligibility requirements to get Medicaid coverage?
Caretaking Son

Dear Caretaking,
The rules and requirements for Medicaid eligibility for nursing home care are complicated and will vary according to the state your mother lives in. With that said, here’s a general, simplified rundown of what it takes to qualify.
Medicaid Eligibility
Medicaid, the joint federal and state program that covers health care for the poor, is also the largest single payer of America’s nursing home bills for seniors who don’t have the resources to pay for their own care. (Note that some states have different names for their Medicaid program.)
Most people who enter nursing homes don’t qualify for Medicaid at first but pay for care either through long-term care insurance or out-of-pocket until they deplete their savings and become eligible for Medicaid.
To qualify for Medicaid, your mother’s income and assets will need to be under a certain level that’s determined by your state. Most states (except California) require that a single person have no more than about $2,000 in countable assets ($3,000 for a married couple) that includes cash, savings, investments or other financial resources that can be turned into cash.
Assets that aren’t counted for eligibility include your mother’s home if it’s valued under $713,000 (this limit is higher – up to $1,071,000 – in some states), her personal possessions and household goods, one vehicle, prepaid funeral plans and a small amount of life insurance.
But be aware that while her home is not considered a countable asset to determine eligibility, if she can’t return home, Medicaid can go after the proceeds of her house to help reimburse her nursing home costs, unless a spouse or other dependent relative lives there. (There are some other exceptions to this rule.)
After qualifying, all sources of your mother’s income such as Social Security and pension checks must be turned over to Medicaid to pay for her care, except for a small personal needs allowance – usually between $30 and $160.
You also need to be aware that your mother can’t give away her assets to qualify for Medicaid faster. Medicaid officials will look at their financial records going back five years (except in California which has a 30-month look-back rule) to root out suspicious asset transfers. If they find one, her Medicaid coverage will be delayed a certain length of time, according to a formula that divides the transfer amount by the average monthly cost of nursing home care in their state.
So, for example, if your mom lives in a state where the average monthly nursing home cost is $8,000 and she gave away cash or other assets worth $160,000, she would be ineligible for benefits for 20 months ($160,000 divided by $8,000 = 20).
Spousal Protection
Medicaid also has special rules (known as the community spouse resource allowance) for married couples when one spouse enters a nursing home, and the other spouse remains at home. In these cases, the healthy spouse can keep one half of the couple’s assets up to $154,140 (this amount varies by state), the family home, all the furniture and household goods and one automobile. The healthy spouse is also entitled to keep a portion of the couple’s monthly income – between $2,465 and $3,854. Any income above that goes toward the cost of the nursing home recipient’s care.
What about Medicare?
Medicare, the federal health insurance program for seniors 65 and older, and some younger people with disabilities, does not pay for long-term care. It only helps pay up to 100 days of rehabilitative nursing home care, which must occur after a three-day hospital stay.
For more information, contact your state Medicaid office. You can also get help from your State Health Insurance Assistance Program (see ShipHelp.org), which provides free counseling on Medicare and Medicaid issues.
Send your senior questions to: Savvy Senior, P.O. Box 5443, Norman, OK 73070, or visit https://savvysenior.org. Jim Miller is a contributor to the NBC Today show and author of “The Savvy Senior” book.

Six Years – Thousands of Connections With Trusted Neighbors

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Marilyn Olson reviews a GIFT binder with some of the partner logos visible on the wall of the VillagesOKC conference room.

By Marilyn Olson, VillagesOKC Executive Director

Many of the 370,000 people 50+ in the Oklahoma City metro know that having a good neighbor is the solution for borrowing sugar or the answer for a little help trimming a crepe myrtle or on a ladder replacing light bulbs. For others, it is getting a little assistance with an iPhone or Android device from someone who knows. Finding a trustworthy plumber, dog sitter, attorney or someone to go to the movies with is all a part of the connections available through VillagesOKC.
For the past six years, VillagesOKC has been serving the metro by developing programs and connection opportunities to empower local adults to age with vitality and purpose. With a variety of impactful initiatives, from educational workshops to veteran recognition events to caregiver support, VillagesOKC seeks to enhance the lives of older adults and their families.
Successful aging involves individuals taking personal responsibility to plan combined with community engagement. The GIFT, Gathering Information for Transitions, is another VillagesOKC program helping members learn about options, make decisions and write in a notebook for rapid access in a crisis. VillagesOKC is the one connection that unites both individual and community forces. This is important since the number of adults in Oklahoma will soon outnumber children under 18 for the first time.
The VillagesOKC mission of empowerment is founded on the transformative idea that the narrative around aging must be fundamentally redefined. Rather than viewing all seniors as dependents requiring constant support, VillagesOKC recognizes them as valuable leaders within the community. People 50 and older possess significant experience, wisdom and capabilities. This offers ongoing opportunities to lead, contribute and flourish. This shift in perspective not only enriches their lives but also strengthens the social fabric of our community.
Strategic partnerships with local organizations and businesses mean less duplication and more cooperation. VillagesOKC partnerships include Senior Living Truth Series, OKC Mature Moves, Buckelew Realty, NewView Oklahoma, Oklahoma Warriors Honor Flight, Force50 Foundation, YMCAs of Greater Oklahoma City and YMCA Healthy Living Center, Directors Life Assurance, Providence Home Care, Nerve Renewal Neuropathy Clinics, CompleteOK (Homecare, Palliative Care and Hospice), Pinnacle Behavioral Healthcare, Senior Care Referral Services, Concordia Life Plan Community, Mercer Adams Funeral Service, Navigating Medicare as well as DHS Community Adult Living and Adult Protective Services, and the State Council on Aging. For more information about VilagesOKC call 405-990-6637 or visit
https://villagesokc.org.

SNL: CENTENARIANS OF OK

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Letha DeMoss

(Right) 100 years old. Letha (Salsbery) DeMoss of Edmond was born July 20, 1924, in Indiana. She has 2 daughters, 4 grandchildren & 5 great grandchildren. After graduating from HS, she worked as a beautician. She is a member of the Chrisian Church where she tutored children & Jesus Loves Me is her favorite hymn.

Jewell Hall

(Left) 100 years old. All smiles, Jewell Hall happily partied with her friends and family to celebrate her 100th birthday. She was the belle of the ball and a beautiful and worthy center of attention! Jewell met the love of her life, Bud, dancing at the famed Cain’s Ballroom in 1944. Notably, both Jewell and the Cain’s Ballroom are celebrating 100 years.

Mary Clark

(Right) 100 years old. Rosie the Riveter, Mary Etta Clark, celebrated her 100th birthday with family and friends today. She worked at Douglas Aerospace during World War II as an engine rigger. Mary Etta once owned the very successful five-star restaurant, Pepies Italian Restaurant. Her words of wisdom for us today are: Get an Education, a Job which you enjoy, and go to church.

Willie Hallonquist

(Right) 101 years old. Willie B. “Brenda” Hallonquist of Edmond was born in Texas. She worked in the medical field & as a real estate agent, attended First Baptist churches, where she volunteered her time & received honors for her work. On her 100th birthday, she took her first limousine ride to Vast Restaurant in downtown OKC for a large family celebration. Brenda’s words of wisdom: “Be quick to listen. Be slow to speak. Be slow to anger. Love God with all your heart!”

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