Monday, June 16, 2025

Cross of Valor Honors R.D. Lawrence’s WWII Service

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R.D. Lawrence (seated) received Oklahoma’s Cross of Valor from State Senator Roland Peterson (left), Governor Kevin Stitt (center), and Secretary John Nash (right).
Memorabilia from R.J. Lawrence’s life fills up a table at his medal ceremony at the State Capitol on May 5, 2025. He squats next to the ball turret of the B-17 in one picture.

When your life is in danger, some memories don’t go away, even if they occurred 81 years ago. Like firing twin .50 caliber machine guns at Nazi airplanes from the ball turret underneath a B-17 Flying Fortress.
“I hit a Messerschmidt (fighter) one day. He was gone away from me and of course, when they get by, they turn their belly up – they’re armor-plated on the bottom. I could see some tracers going off from him. I never got him down. He (fighter) was a longways away. He had come through our (bomber) group once and got away but he didn’t come back,” explained Richard D. Lawrence, a 102-year-old WWII veteran.
Lawrence was at Oklahoma’s State Capitol in the Hall of Heros to receive the Oklahoma Cross of Valor from Governor Kevin Stitt. Part of Stitt’s address included the following. “His story is one of grit and courage and unbelievable bravery. He answered the call to serve during a time of war, was taken captive by the enemy and he came home with his honor intact. That strength comes from a love of country, a sense of duty, and unbreakable spirit. In Oklahoma, we believe in honoring our heros and we have a real-life hero with us today.”
Lawrence wasn’t alone – lots of family, friends, State Representatives and Senators, uniformed military and veterans gave him a standing ovation when he was called up to get the Cross of Valor enclosed in a glass case.
Others have formally thanked Lawrence too, including a French Counsel who gave him the French Legion of Honor and the Oklahoma Military Heritage Foundation, who inducted him into the Oklahoma Military Hall of Honor.
Before the ceremony, Alfonso Garza, the Veterans Mental Health Program Administrator with Oklahoma’s Department of Veteran Affairs (ODVA), asked R.D. if he had any advice. His answer? First, take it one day at a time. Second, trust in the Lord with all your heart.
When R.D. got home from the war, he went right to work harvesting crops. No two-week vacation swapping war stories at the bar to relax after the ordeal. In a conversation with Galen Culver of the KFOR television station, he recalled, “I got home on my mother’s birthday, June 15th, 1945, and we started cutting wheat that afternoon.’” He married his high school sweetheart, Joanne, right away too – 11 days later.
They had three children: Richard, Julie and Leanna, who were at the ceremony. Leanna, whose married name is Turney, said, “I had wonderful parents…parents that went to everything we went to (activities).”
The ODVA shared a biography that explains Lawrence’s postwar time of peace. “A proud steward of the land, he continues to live and manage the farm, recently keeping busy clearing fields from the seat of his Polaris”…He served “on the boards of the Farmers’ Cooperative of Wakita, the Wakita School Board, and as a longtime Director of Citizens Bank of Wakita. His dedication to agriculture was honored with the title of Oklahoma Farmer of the Year at the Oklahoma State Fair. A man of faith, he served over 60 years as an Elder at both Fairview Christian Church and Wakita Christian Church. In retirement, RD took up golfing and played daily into his early 90s-always with the same group of friends, and more often than not, he came home the winner.”
James Neal of the Enid News & Eagle sat down with R.D. in 2011 and wrote the following. “Today, he remembers those who didn’t make it home as the true heroes from history’s largest war. Their ranks included Lawrence’s brother, Burke, an aircrewman who was killed while on a training flight shortly after the war’s end…Lawrence said, ‘They were all heroes, I thought, those boys who didn’t make it home.’” story/photos by Richard Stephens, Jr., Lt. Col, USAF Retired

Portion of Citation of Appreciation from the Oklahoma State Legislature to Technical Sergeant Richard D. Lawrence.
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Whereas, on June 7, 1944, while on a mission to destroy marshalling yards in Budapest, Hungary, R.D. Lawrence’s plane took a direct hit, and he was forced to parachute out. He was captured a week later and held as a prisoner of war in Stalag Luft IV Prison Camp in Gross Tychow, Pomerania (now Tychowo, Poland) and later forced on a 500-mile death march. On May 2, 1945, he was liberated by the British soldiers and returned to Enid just in time for harvest.

A Marine’s Journey – Mr Sam’s WWII Story and Life

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At 97, Gillaspy Shares Tales of Courage, Service, and Resilience.

From serving in WWII to building a family farm and becoming a beloved storyteller, legacy spans generations.

Story by Richard Stephens, Jr.

Mr. Sam Gillaspy during his service in the Marine Corps, 1945-1946. The vehicle may be one he drove at Camp Pendleton.
Mr. Sam Gillaspy, age 97, is a member of the Greatest Generation, a precious and small (100,000 remain) group of men (and women) who served our nation during WWII.  Everyone calls him Mr. Sam and he lives in Midwest City.
He is physically strong, slim, and walks straight without bending over or using any physical aid.  Over time, he has lost much of his hearing, some memory and speaks with difficulty.
Joining the Marine Corps
“I was 17 and the United States needed men awful hard.  So, I entered the Marines (enlisted on February 28, 1945, with a delayed report date) and I still had about three months of (high) school left,” Mr. Sam said.  His parents gave permission to enlist.  Why the Marine Corps?  According to Jeannie Vollmer, his partner, he felt that the Marines were the toughest Service.
Was he strong enough to join?  Mr. Sam laughed and said, “Oh yeah.  Back then, yeah, I was.”
Training at Parris Island
After graduating high school, the Marines sent Mr. Sam a letter assigning him to active duty service, effective June 5, 1945.  He remembered, “You got five days to get everything (ready to go).  And so, it took us five days to get from Oklahoma City to the east to the ocean” at Parris Island, South Carolina, for basic training.
Was the training hard?  “Yes, and I did pretty good…I made it the middle” (a good training record).
“They taught me how to fire a BAR (Browning Automatic Rifle)…It’s a long…bigger than a rifle and it has at the end of it, a tripod.  You laid down and (moving arms left to right) and shot…like a machine gun.”  Mr. Sam likely fired the Browning M1918A2 Automatic Rifle, which was the WWII production model used by servicemen after 1940.  “They put me to do it and became real good …We learned how to tear them down and get them back together.  We did that for several days.”
There was field training too.  Wearing backpacks, men held their BARs and crawled under barbed wire into live fire zones to practice wartime skills.
“Live ammunition.  We didn’t know.  They (instructors) were shooting.  It was bang, bang.  They told you that if you get up, they will shoot you.  You die…And you had to just to squeeze through the wire.  And some of the boys…had holes in their backpack…because they’re already big men and (it was) a small width.  I was down where it (the fire) didn’t hit me or my pack.  I made it just fine.”
Assignment at Camp Pendleton
After training, “We went from Parris Island…from east to the west…to San Diego, California…And we didn’t know where we were going.  We got out of the train, standing on the pier in the middle of the night…and there was a big boat with planks (gangway).  I had never seen such a ship like that – it was a monster thing.”
The Marines formed up.  A man called their names alphabetically, starting with “A.”   “All the boys were going upstairs (into the ship) as they called their name.
“Then, all of a sudden, this guy comes up with a jeep and said something to the guy that was reading the names.  He said, ‘You, you and you fall out and follow this man in the jeep.’  And I was the third one.  They put the three of us in that jeep and we drove and drove way up to (Camp) Pendleton” (California), Mr. Sam said.
The others left on the pier?  “And all the rest of them, they ended going into the ship.  Those that went out (on the ship), some of them came back, some of them didn’t.  I guess it was meant for me to stay right there.
“They needed somebody to take care of the general’s car.  They put me doing that.”  Private Gillaspy’s occupation was officially “Truck Driver.”  He serviced the vehicle and kept it shined.
Mr. Sam saw men coming back from being stationed in the Pacific theater of operations.  “I was able to talk with them.  This one man, I don’t know why, it’s been so long, he gave me his rifle that he came from the war…” because the man had used it shooting Japanese.  “And he said, ‘…he couldn’t take it anymore’…And he gave it (rifle) to me.  And I was able to put it in my barracks.”
Time Off
During days off, Mr. Sam and friends sometimes went to Los Angelas to United Services Organization (USO) parties.  Hitchhiking was common.
USOs were a place to relax with talking, dancing and drinking.  “What was nice was, Hollywood ladies would come up to me and ask, ‘Would you like to dance with me?’  I said, ‘Yes, Ma’am, but I don’t know how!’” he said, laughing.
Coming home
“My time ended (enlistment).  They gave me my big footlocker…When it was time (to leave), they took us to the post gates.”  Mr. Sam did what others did:  hitchhiked home.  “It was five minutes and this big Buick with a man driving it (pulled up).  He said, ‘Which way are you going?’  Mr. Sam replied, ‘I’m going to Oklahoma City.’ ‘Well,’ he said, ‘I’m going to Tulsa.  I’ll take you and it won’t cost you nothing.’”
That’s how Mr. Sam got home after serving in WIWII.  He was discharged as a Private First Class on August 26, 1946, after serving a bit more than 14 months.
Post war
Mr. Sam worked for Dolese, a well-known cement maker, for 40 years starting in 1949.  He met Betty, his future wife, and once married, had two daughters, Rita and Cynthia.  They built a home on 42nd Ave. and Kelly Ave. in Oklahoma City.
In 1961, Mr. Sam bought a 160-acre farm in Luther containing a small house built in 1889.  He drove concrete trucks full-time for Dolese and farmed part time.  Once he added rooms and electricity to the house, Betty, Rita, and Cynthia moved there in 1968.  Unfortunately, Betty died of a heart attack soon after.  They grew wheat and alfalfa, fed 80 Hereford cows and raised chickens and rabbits.
Mr. Sam is well known at Arcadia’s Round Barn.  He started storytelling and giving tours soon after the barn’s renovation in 1992.  He explained posters and pictures on the first floor and showed visitors the former hayloft on the second floor that hosted many dances.
Although he stopped storytelling at the Round Barn in 2020, lucky visitors can still catch him there when he stops in to say hello.
Postscript
Was Mr. Sam glad he served in the war?  “Oh yeah, I was,” he said, smiling broadly.  “I enjoyed all of it.”
Asked he had a philosophy on living life or what makes for a good life, Mr. Sam thought for a minute.  Chuckling, then smiling, thinking through his answer, he replied, “I don’t smoke.  I don’t drink.  I don’t chase wild women.”  (Laughed).  His is a life lived well.

Veteran Gives Back By Training Service Dogs For Veterans

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Her experience as a participant in the Ms. Veteran America competition helped spur Carrie Moore into advocacy work for Veterans.

“I ran for Ms. Veteran America, I think it was three years ago, and that kind of threw me into advocacy work,” Moore, a U.S. Navy Veteran said. “The purpose behind Ms. Veteran America is to raise awareness and funds for women veterans that are homeless. We provide suitable housing for them and their children.”

She added, “So, most of the time when women veterans are homeless, they don’t really realize that they can seek assistance if they have children, because they’re afraid their children are going to be taken away from them. We try to help ensure that they’re placed together, and kept together, and get them the help that they need.”

Moore grew up in Eufaula before enlisting in the Navy, where she served for five years.

“I grew up on Lake Eufaula, and being the rebellious teenager that I was, I did not want to do the same thing that my dad (U.S. Army) did. So, the other services were options for me. The Navy just got to me first,” she said.

Moore said directly after the service, she went into contracting after working at the National Security Agency in Fort Meade, Maryland.

“But then, when I had my son, which was in 2004, I wanted to be a stay-at-home mom. So we moved to Texas, and I was a stay-at-home mom for the next 15 years,” she said.

Moore and her husband later moved to Moore to be closer to family.

Moore’s Veteran advocacy efforts also included working as a VSO for the Dale Graham Foundation for about 12 years, writing claims for them, specializing in military sex trauma before working with the American Legion in Moore.

“To be able to give back to veterans just means a lot to me, because we’ve got a lot of making up to do,” she said. “I feel like you make a bigger difference (with Veterans) that way.”

Moore and her husband are also giving back to Veterans through their non-profit, Got Your Six, Service Dogs for Veterans which trains veterans to train their own service dogs.

“I had been doing some volunteer work with rescues around the area. I had been fostering dogs and transporting them from one rescue to another,” she said. “We were contacted by an organization that had a dog they had been given to be euthanized. We took the dog on because my husband trains canines for sport. We weren’t worried about taking in this dog, because we knew we could fix whatever issue he had going on. He (Ruger) has been just the best dog ever. If you’re around him for five minutes, you’re in love with him.”

Moore said they had Ruger for about three weeks before they noticed something about him.

“We had him for about three weeks when he started alerting me to a heart condition that I have,” she said. “I have Wolff-Parkinson-White Syndrome, which causes my heart rate to go up to 300 beats a minute.”

Moore said that spurred a desire in learning what it took to get a service dog trained.

“We were unable to find anybody that would train him because we didn’t know his past. They considered it a liability working with a dog that came from the shelter,” she said. “We just went ahead and started training him ourselves.”

Moore believes that service dogs are the most underutilized resource that we have.

“Not many people know about it, and they think that you must spend thousands of dollars or be on a two-year waitlist to get a service dog,” she said. “And that’s not the case. You can train one yourself, and it can be a dog from the shelter. There Are no limitations on breeds, ages. They need to be able to perform a task that you need for your disability to make your life better.”

Moore said Ruger has been a traveling companion to advocate and educate on service dogs.

“I’ve been traveling around with him for two, three years advocating for female veterans, and just trying to get the word out about how this resource can help other veterans,” she said.

Moore said they currently only help Veterans.

“At this point in time, we only help veterans. We train one dog, one veteran,” she said. “We prefer that they bring in a dog that they have at their house, but a lot of times those dogs will not work. They must be environmentally-sound more than anything. So, if that dog doesn’t work, then they can switch to another dog in the house.”

Moore said their training sessions are held each Monday at a church in downtown Moore.

“We train every Monday evening, and we train for about an hour,” she said. “And our point behind it is, we give you homework every week. We show you how to train the dog for something specific, and then we have you go home for that week and practice on that thing. And then we continually add to that.”

Moore said consistency is a key component of training.

“You must do it consistently. The consistent training, doing it daily,” she said. “And a lot of people don’t want to put in the work for it, they think it’s just going to happen.”

Moore said their training services are free to Veterans.

“We have found that many Veterans have a need for service dogs but cannot pay thousands of dollars for one or have years to wait to get one trained from an organization,” she said. “And we believe that teaching a Veteran to train their own will allow them to pay it forward and help someone else which helps the veteran feel worthy and want to stick around. It’s completely free of charge to the veterans. Even if they need a dog, that’s all free of charge.”
For more information contact Moore at (405) 365-5356 or email her at Carrie.Moore.ok@gmail.com. story by Van Mitchell

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